If your man is always on top during sex or in the ‘dominant’ position, then straddling him is a great way to switch things up and take on a more dominant role yourself
Being on top and taking control can be really fun! The positions on this style are: Amazon Position, Asian Cowgirl Position, Bucking Bronco Position, Corner Cowgirl Position, Cowgirl Sex Position. For comprehensive sex positions ; this book with illustrations you can instantly download; Couples Sex Guide with Demonstrated Sex Positions.

1. Amazon Sex Position

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The Amazon sex position is a woman on top position that a lot of people have never actually heard of. But it’s really fun and definitely worth trying, especially if you like to take on a slightly dominant role in the bedroom.
To do the Amazon, your man needs to lie down on his back and bring his legs upwards and bend his knees. You then need to squat down on your man, while he pulls his legs close to his chest so that they are out of your way. You then just need to squat up and down to allow him to penetrate you. You will find that your man will naturally push you back upwards with his thighs.
You may find getting into this position to be a little difficult at first, but it’s well worth it if you like being on top.
When performing this position, you need to be careful not to accidentally hurt your man’s penis as it will be bending backwards quite a lot.
Lady roles
When you are performing the Amazon with your man, your first priority is getting into position without hurting your man and making sure that you are comfortable. You may find that leaning on your man’s thighs helps to take the pressure off your legs a little bit.
I recommend that you first get into position above your man, before taking his penis into your vagina. When are in position, slowly pull it backwards and then slip it inside. With the first few strokes, make sure that you are very gentle and careful so as not to hurt your man. Make sure to ask him how it feels and go from there.

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Man Roles
When your man is in the Amazon position, he will not be doing a whole lot. He needs to have a small amount of flexibility so that he can actually hold his legs into his chest and out of your way. He can use his thighs to very gently help to nudge you up and down on his penis.
If your man is not that flexible, it can feel like he is trying to push you off him.
Variations
There are a number of variations of the Amazon that you can perform if you find that the regular Amazon is too difficult or awkward to perform.
Kneeling – Instead of squatting over your man, try kneeling to take the pressure off your legs, the only problem with kneeling is that you may find yourself constantly slipping down the back of your man’s thighs which will further bend his penis backwards.
Reverse – Performing the Amazon in reverse (by having your back to your man), you may find it to be much, much easier. You will be sort of sitting on your man’s thighs while bouncing up and down on him.
Tips
The more you lean over your man (in the regular Amazon position), the less pressure you will be putting on his suspensory ligaments in his penis (the less strained his penis will be).
The Reverse Amazon is much easier to perform with your man, without feeling like his thighs are constantly pushing you off.
Comments
The Amazon position is a slightly more exotic position to perform with your partner. If you like taking on a dominant role, where you have most of the control, then you have got to try it.

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2. Asian Cowgirl Sex Position

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The asian cowgirl sex position is very similar to regular the regular cowgirl position. You are on top, while your man is lying down on his back. However there are still some major differences that you need to consider when performing it.
In the regular cowgirl position, you will have your knees either side of your man, resting on the bed. When you are doing the asian cowgirl with your man, you will be squatting, which means that most of your weight will be supported by your feet while you are squatting. You can use your hands to take some of your weight by putting them on either your man’s chest or on either side of him on the bed. If you are not very strong or flexible, you will find the asian cowgirl position to be quickly tiring.
You can lean forward or backward or remain upright like in this demonstration of the Asian Cowgirl.
Lady Roles
When you are in the asian cowgirl position, you will be squatting over your man. I find that it’s best to start from the regular cowgirl position and then transition into asian cowgirl. To move into asian cowgirl from regular cowgirl, first lean forwards and put your hands on the bed to steady yourself. Next rock back onto your toes and raise your body just off your man to get into the squatting position.
Now put your hands on your mans chest and together using both your arms and legs, slowly rise up and down. If you find that your arms are getting tired from doing most of the work, then switch to using your legs and vice-versa. Obviously you can change the angle of entry by either leaning forwards or backwards. However if you lean backwards too much, your may find that it’s harder to balance and your legs get tired even faster.
Man Roles
Your guy will have much less work to do when you are in the asian cowgirl position. If he wants, he can just lie there and literally do nothing at all. But that’s not what great sex is all about. What’s best is if he helps you to bounce up and down. In other words he can put his hands under your legs/bum and help to lift you up and down, so that you are not doing all of the work. Alternatively, he can put a hand on either side of your waist to balance you.
Tips
If you find that you tire quickly in the asian cowgirl position, then a great way to last much longer is to try and stay steady in one position, while your man does all the thrusting.
The best way to last longer is to use the Top Tip above: Hold still, while your man does all the thrusting.
You need a good degree of flexibility and strength to do the asian cowgirl.
You can use a firm cushion or 2 under your bum so that your legs are no longer taking all the weight. Make sure to get your man to keep his legs together if you do this, otherwise the cushions will not be of much use.
Comments
If your man is able to thrust very rapidly, girls can get a lot of pleasure from it when they stay steady in one position.

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3. Bucking Bronco Sex Position

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The Bucking Bronco sex position is great if you like being on top and having most of the control during sex. The Bucking Bronco is quite similar to the Octopus position but is much easier and less tiring to perform.
To set yourself up in the Bucking Bronco position, your man needs to lie down on his back. You then need to get on top of him, facing him. When he is inside you, lean backwards and put your arms behind you to keep yourself balanced. Then put your feet so that they are either side of your man’s head. The wider you spread your feet, the easier it will be to balance yourself.
Transitioning to the Bucking Bronco position from Asian Cowgirl is really easy.
Now you will be able to bounce up and down on your man, just like a….Bucking Bronco. You’ll find that it’s quite easy to switch to the Bucking Bronco from the Reverse Cowgirl position.
Lady roles
When you are doing the Bucking Bronco with your man, you will be doing the majority of the work, lifting yourself up and down on your man. This will quickly get tiring if your man is not helping you out. To take a break, try sitting right down on your man and rocking yourself backwards and forwards.
The Bucking Bronco is also a great position for anal sex. If you are having anal sex while doing it, then you can use one hand to rub your clitoris and vagina or even finger yourself, while using your other hand to balance yourself
Man roles
If your man is particularly lazy, then he doesn’t have to do anything. But if he is interested in both of you having a good time, then he needs to be active too. Keeping his legs straight and together won’t allow him to thrust into you with much force. Instead, he should lift his knees and bend them a little bit, then plant them on the bed. This will allow him to get leverage and thrust harder.
He can also just gyrate his hips while remaining deep inside you.
Tips
• If you find that your shoulders/arms quickly get tired, then try leaning back further and rest on your elbows instead. Just be careful as you will be putting extra strain on your man’s penis.
• Alternatively, try leaning further forward.
• A third alternative is for your man to raise his knees up far enough so that you can comfortably lie back on them so you now longer have to use your arms to support yourself.
•There is a good bit of room for you to move around in the Bucking Bronco position, so make sure to experiment a bit until you find an angle that you really enjoy.
Comments
It’s more fun and a little less arduous or tiring for you to just grind in this position instead of bouncing up and down.
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4. Corner Cowgirl Sex Position

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The Corner Cowgirl sex position is obviously a variation of the regular Cowgirl sex position, where you are on top of your man at the corner of the bed, while he’s lying on his back. This is a great position to try if you are getting bored of regular Cowgirl.
To perform it, your man needs to lie on his back on the bed. His crotch should be positioned by the corner of the bed, so that one of his legs dangles over 1 side of the bed, while the other dangles over the end of the bed.
Ideally your man should plant his feet on the floor to give himself some stability. You then need to straddle him as you normally would when performing the cowgirl position so that you are on your knees, “bouncing” up and down on him.
Lady roles
So when you are on top of your man, on your knees, part of your lower legs will be hanging over the edge of the bed.
Your first objective is a safety one: you need to be careful not to accidentally slip backwards and fall off him.
To make sure you don’t, try leaning forward a little while on top of your man. Instead of just “bouncing” up and down on your man, you may find it a little more pleasurable to sit right down on him and move your hips forwards and backwards so that you are grinding on him with very little thrusting.
Man roles
When your man is lying on his back, he has the option of relaxing and letting you do most of the work, but really he should be doing his fair share if he is serious about great sex.
If the bed is at the right height and his feet are planted on the floor, it means that he can thrust up into you quite vigorously, while you keep yourself slightly elevated on your knees. He can also put his hands on your hips and push you forwards and backwards to grind on him.
Tips
The first thing is to make sure that you don’t slip backwards and accidentally fall off. A great way to prevent yourself from falling off is just to get your man to move further back towards the middle of the bed so that only his lower legs are hanging over the edge.
As with most sex positions, make sure to do a little experimentation by leaning forwards and backwards to find an angle that you really enjoy.
You won’t be able to perform it if your bed has both a headboard and footboard.
Comments
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5. Cowgirl Sex Position

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Cowgirl is probably the single most famous ‘girl on top’ sex position there is. Plus, it’s really easy to perform. Just check out the picture below. If you have never been ‘on top’ before, the cowgirl position is a great place to start. The great thing about cowgirl is that you are now the one in control which can be really fun if your man is usually the one on top and calling the shots.
Like being on top and being in control? Then you’ll love Cowgirl!
As I said, this is an incredibly easy position to have sex in. Your man just needs to simply lay on his back while you straddle him with your legs either side of his waist so that your knees are on the bed. You can put you hands on his chest, shoulders or the bed to steady yourself or alternatively you can just put them on your thighs.
Man Roles
The man doesn’t actually need to do anything in the cowgirl position. But to be honest that’s not what sex is about! While the man is lying on his back, he can simply thrust up and down. Or he can slowly gyrate his hips in a swirling motion to stimulate the wall of your vagina. Or he can try doing both at the same time.
Your man can also put his hands under your bum and help to push you up and down if your are getting tired.
Lady Roles
When you are in the cowgirl position you are really the one in control. You can bounce up and down on your man’s penis or instead, you can move your body forwards and backwards to stimulate your clitoris and the rest of the outside of your vagina. Think of it as grinding against his pubic bone. Or you can try doing both at the same time.
You’ll also find that by leaning forwards or backwards you can change the angle of entry. If you find that you are leaning back a lot, then make sure to use your hands to help steady yourself.

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Your man can help you to grind on him using his hands like in the picture above.
Tips
• It’s perfectly natural to be a bit nervous the first few times you try it. To help take the pressure off, try doing it with the lights off. Alternatively, some girls find that leaning in on top of their man towards his face helps to take the pressure off while also being quite intimate at the same time.
•You don’t have to be particularly flexible to perform the cowgirl. But if you are leaning backwards a lot, then it’s a good idea to be at least a little flexible.
•Keep adjusting your position by moving your hips backwards and forwards as well as leaning your entire body either backwards or forwards until you find a position that you really enjoy.
•Although your man may not enjoy it that much, a lot of girls I have talked to have said that they really enjoy ‘grinding’ to stimulate their clitoris in this position while their man is still inside them. Many have said that they much prefer this to just bouncing up and down on his cock.
•Sometimes your man won’t get much out of this position. So be aware of this and make sure to change positions from the cowgirl to something that your man enjoys if he doesn’t seem to like it that much. Remember sex is about 2 people (or more!) having a great time. It’s never cool to be selfish during sex
Comments
If you like being submissive during sex, cowgirl isn’t a particularly submissive position.

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